I see now, with time and age, that the American female gender is bread from day one to achieve a certain goal; True love:
Fairy tales, Disney movies, kitchen toy sets, creepy plastic baby dolls...etc etc.
We all want to be the star princess in our own classic Disney movie, eventually falling into the arms of our own "prince charming."
LOVE.
LOVE!
LOVE?
The complete saturation of the female brain in finding this bliss deemed true love, it is our greatest character flaw.
But I don't think it's our genders fault at hand. I believe its how we are raised. Clockwork Orange, eyes peeled back type jazz.
Looks quite painful yes? Well shit. Love IS painful.
Love ,if and when found, is fine and dandy.
BUT it starts to become a bit hazardous when all a woman craves to obtain is finding the ONE and FINALLY completing the mega-ritual of marriage.
I got semi lucky in the department of prince charming brain washing mode. My parents moved here from Brazil when they were about my age so I wasn't necessarily spoon fed these ideals of finding a perfect man, quite the opposite in fact. Although, I DID grow up here and thus was introduced to all the pleasant things,ideals, toys, etc. that little girls tend be submersed in growing up fembot in America.
It makes complete sense why we have love crazed, life abandoning women running full fledged around the streets in full on PCZM.
(Prince charming zombie mode.)
Get hot.
Any hot guys here?
Oh, there's one.
Lets play a cat and mouse game, interested?
Of course you are, because I have something you want.
Fuck. Why hasn't he called me back?!
A little help help here please?
That's the bull shit I'm talking about. If you haven't personally experienced you are one of the few lucky individuals YET...
Positive you are the one dishing advise out to these lost souls left and right.
Ladies, it's way passed due to hit the off switch.
The only love that should be constantly taunting the mind is the obtainment of loving yourself.
On that note. I'm going to clean MY house, and go have a beer with MY girlfriends, minimal makeup, and possibly wearing the same dingy outfit I wore the evening prior.
Goodnight.
S. Cavalcanti
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YES MA'AM! Yeah the whole series of games is utterly repulsive. I could write novels in response to this but...
ReplyDeleteEmbrace your natural beauty, embrace your talents, and embrace how lucky you are to be YOU...and you (er) alone. You're surrounded by love and you don't need a man to know that :)
How very blessed we are to be independent women!
apparently little known fact: we love independent women.. so fathers be good to your daughters... the media is steadily in direct opposition of strong young women.. in my opinion, its up to the parents to reinforce positive self-worth. but that would assume that the parents have any kinda sense..
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OMG!!! you would not believe that I wrote a term paper on this subject....what i found (and believe)???? that little boys, who tend to have more fem characteristics or who are intersex are actually hurting more from this than little girls....my thesis was concentrated on the "Princess Phenomemon". Little boys who were intersexed were prohibited from playing with the toys that they deemed suited them better (girl toys)...but they would never know that these toys were better suited to their gender-queer identities unless someone had told them "this is not for little boys, but for little girls"....so, to end this, gender is socially constructed....lets 'de-construct it'!!!!! pink is not only for grrls, and blue is not only for bois.....
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